tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451405097285988384.post6475033730292012983..comments2016-01-03T06:53:41.984-08:00Comments on What doesn't kill me.....: Daddy dearest.....Aaron Hadenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07613416097572965351noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451405097285988384.post-87735603276691969132012-09-18T13:18:34.965-07:002012-09-18T13:18:34.965-07:00Oh Dawnel, my heart aches for you! No one will eve...Oh Dawnel, my heart aches for you! No one will ever have the words to make it better or make the hurt go away but what I can tell you is my experience and hope it's the same for you. My daughters father did not see her or speak to me until the day AFTER she was born. However, after a very rough and rocky and painful road during my pregnancy, my daughter now has the most amazing father!!! The minute he looked at her he became that father (just like everyone said blah blah blah). I know it has to hurt so bad that he isn't there supporting you, but know that from at least where I'm sitting at least he wants to be there when she is born and that's a good thing!!! You are stuck with him (like it or not) for the rest of your life in some compacity, so take a deep breath, meditate and read a lot of uplifting books, and just know although it's not easy AT ALL, your little bundle of joy is right around the corner and 100% worth it. Good luck:) Aaron Hadenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07613416097572965351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451405097285988384.post-74298549488651226532012-09-18T13:05:49.999-07:002012-09-18T13:05:49.999-07:00I sat here with tear filled eyes reading this. Eve...I sat here with tear filled eyes reading this. Every word struck a cord in my heart. I have been struggling with this exact thing for many months. Contrary to you, my father was never involved in my life, and in his place my mother chose bad man after bad man and allowed them to enter into my younger sister and my lives with seemingly no second thoughts. I am 36 weeks 3 days pregnant, and I have no clue whether my daughter's 'father' will be involved in her life. He claims to want to be as involved as possible, yet he ignores me at every turn. We haven't spoken in about 2 weeks. He wants to be in the delivery room, because he feels it is his right, but isn't it my right to be able to call my baby's father when I feel moody and emotional and need a bit of support? Everyone has told me that reality won't hit him until Aurora is in his arms and he sees what his sperm created. The thing I don't understand, is why he gets a free pass to be a jerk to the woman he impregnated for 9 whole months until that day he sees the baby, just because reality hasn't hit him. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11175577410111594017noreply@blogger.com